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Being careless is important sometimes | Niza Faiyaz

Writer: Bespoke DiariesBespoke Diaries


Talent is indeed in everyone but the capacity of accepting yours is itself a talent, it is a wonderful thing about you, and the power of recognising your talent is amazing and the never-forgetting moment she says.


She believes that your confidence somewhere gets a little bit weak because of the negativity of some negative people, but don't lose hope believe in yourself you can do what you want, don't let them succeed in their mission of pushing you back, showing you down, and teasing you out. They will copy you as much as they can but will tease you when you do something beyond their expectations and their standards that they think they never can do. Make the best out of the worst, make your standards high, She adds.


She says being silent when they show you down but undoubtedly show them they don't affect you rather they are encouraging you to go forward. Do great that your family is known because of you, that your name is being spoken to make their repo high. Hardworking never goes waste, it always gives you something marvelous and appreciative that you feel proud and peaceful of.


Niza Fayaz says when she recognised her talent of writing she was not so brave to accept it, she was in class 5th when she started to write the poems, articles and short stories but not a single piece of writing she preserved, she took it lightly and was not serious about it.


Then in class 8 she accepted her talent, she got more involved in writing, her interest started to increase more day by day, the words, ideas and thoughts screaming out in her mind forced her to take pen and paper to make them come out on the paper and that became the source of feeling proud for her. Now nothing seems more interesting to her than playing with words, She adds.


In class 8th she co-authored in the anthology titled as heartfelt writing, After an anthology she immediately published her solo book titled as motivational words through the notion press platform she adds.


She believes nobody can motivate ot inspire you better than you yourself can. Niza Fayaz says she never even shared her talent of writing with anyone because she was somewhere scared of what if someone would dislike her writing, that would destroy her confidence and herself. She believed she would never write again if her first book got rejected but by God's grace that never happened.


She says don't share your plans show them the result and that will take you so forward. People work to push you back but you never stop working to make yourself feel proud and satisfied, the more you achieve the more you wish, the fact is you are this much talented that you never get satisfied, you always want to work and gain more.


People will try to act blind they wish they would be blind, deaf and dumb just because they can't see you going so forward, congratulating you, hearing about your success. But you strive more, no matter how hard the struggle is.


She says no matter how good you are, no matter how good you think of other, others are born to find your weakness and tease you out, they are born to find moments to insult you, the ones never succeed because they are less concerned about their succes and more concerned about destroying you.


But she believes you can buy the love of your enemies, your haters by giving them a lot of love, even more than a lot that they would feel embarassed and will get tired of hating you, undoubtedly they are being forced by your love for them to love you back.


People will not lose a single chance to show you down to embarass you but build your repo high and strong that their words are not going to effect you in anyway. Niza Fayaz says no matter how young or old you are its never too late or early to do anything great.


Is trying to be perfectionist a taunt? No. There is nothing bad in trying to be the perfect, undoubtedly nobody is perfect but indeed trying the perfect would somewhere make you perfect in someway.


Why to be affected by the negativity of people? You cannot force your mindsets on anybody everybody has their own kind of thinking not everybody can say positive about you. If some people are there and here to speak and think positive about you then obviously why can't be negative people. We should not get affected by the negativity, its their choice what they think about you. Being careless is not bad all the time. So what they say bad about you? who cares?


Coming to the end she says what she thinks is not necessary that everybody would think the same and would agree with her, but she says she was wrong when she thought she would have never written again if her first book got rejected, always try again no matter how many times you fail and get rejected.


Every talent has a value, whether it is singing, dancing, drawing or whatever, Don't let it go waste. Make best out of everything, she adds.

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