Niza Fayaz raises questions she says Does being chill mean nothing makes them serious? Does not giving a damn mean nothing hurts them? Does talking and friendship with the opposite gender make them character and does it mean they come from an atrocious background? Do others fake rumours and their point of view defines them? Are extrovert girls to be called so-called girls?
In our so-called modern society, it's disheartening to see girls being taunted for their clothing choices and for simply living their lives. It begs the question, is our society truly modern? Despite the advancements we've made, it seems that we still have a long way to go in terms of acceptance and equality.
It's perplexing to think that in this day and age, people are still judged based on their appearance and lifestyle choices. Girls should be able to express themselves freely without facing criticism or ridicule. It's not just about surviving, but truly living and embracing one's individuality.
Our society should be a place where everyone feels empowered to be themselves, regardless of gender or any other factor. Instead, we see girls being shamed for their choices as if they are somehow less deserving of respect and understanding.
It's important for us to challenge these outdated beliefs and strive for a society that truly embodies the principles of modernity. We should celebrate diversity, encourage self-expression, and create an environment where everyone feels safe and accepted.
Let's work towards a future where girls, and everyone else, can thrive without the fear of being judged or taunted. It's time to break free from these archaic norms and embrace a truly modern society that values and respects every individual for who they are. Remember, you have the power to make a positive impact through your words and actions. Together, we can create a society that is not only modern in name, but also in its treatment of others.
She says Being chill doesn't mean anything makes them serious. They may look laid-back although have deep thoughts and emotions. Your tongue has no bone you won't get hurt by speaking too much which is very painful for the one you speak of. But remember it could become a reason for someone to give up on living.
I have seen people who go silent all of a sudden who used to speak, laugh, spread joy, Make situations full of fun! She says it's not because they preferred to change themselves it's because the world forced them the change. With time the waves of changes become the reason that they don't actually find their true self. She adds
Not giving a damn doesn't mean nothing hurts. Everyone feels pain, but choosing not to dwell on it is a sign of strength. Some people get hurt deep inside but burry it all deep inside them that they never make you feel what and how hurtful your words were to them. they might say they don't care, However! they changed their self due to fear.
People meant for criticism made them silent, Anxiety, depression, and panic attacks attacked and they saw nobody for encouragement. you made them doubt themselves even after being so chaste. she adds.
Talking and being friends with the opposite gender doesn't make you characterless or one from an atrocious background. It's about building connections and understanding different perspectives. In our society it's considered a sin if a girl talks to a boy, why can't it be considered normal, Yeah indubitably our society is full of dirt but still different people of different mindsets exist, she says why judge one on the basis of what you know about another! we never know what it really is we just judge and don't care how effective it could be.
Others' fake rumours and opinions don't define who they are. Their true character shines through despite your attempts to bring them down. But indeed it's so much effective, the one spreads it in a group and every member of the group spreads it to another, it’s the nature of a human being. But before you spread any rumour or judge someone on the basis of what you hear is a sin. Without knowing the mystery behind don't let your opinions become a headache for them and a curse for you!
Extroverted girls are not "so-called" girls. They are vibrant, confident, and unafraid to express themselves. Let's celebrate their energy and embrace the diversity of personalities. She asks why to raise questions about somebody's personality before knowing ours. Why can't we see the things happening around us in a positive way especially when it comes to girls in our so-called modern society she adds.
In a world filled with stereotypes, it's important to break free from those narrow mindsets. We should embrace individuality and not judge others based on their behaviour, friendships, or gender. Let's rise above it all and create a society that values authenticity and respects everyone's unique journey.
Remember, you have the power to define yourself and shape your own narrative. Stay true to who you are, and don't let society's expectations hold you back. Embrace your individuality and let your light shine! The critics, you can talk and sneer, But they won't let your words bring fear. they'll keep on dancing, loud and clear, And live their lives with joy and cheer.
So let the haters hate and rage, they'll keep on moving, page by page. their hearts are strong, their wills unswayed, And they'll keep shining, on and on, unafraid. Hate and love are so expensive don't spend it on everything. Niza Fayaz adds.
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